Fashion Style Advice

There are a lot of situations where a man is not successful with their dating process. If you think that you already did your best … think again. Here are some common yet effective dating advice for men that you can follow when entering the dating arena. These tips are surely effective that you can capture even the most trained woman in dating warfare.

1. Be physically attractive. Decent clothes and shoes is a must in dating, even the most old fashioned style of shoes needs shining. Choose the type of clothes that fits your personality and body built. Have a haircut with the most decent style possible.

2. Who let the dogs out. You don’t want to smell like a dog on your date, shop for a good quality cologne and have a grooming kit. Regular shower can also make you smell good.

3. Be professional and have a job. Any type of job is better that none. Women now a day think of their future with their partner – how could you be a good provider if you are jobless.

4. Let them know you are smart. Showing the girl that you are up to date with the current events is a plus on your handsome points. Women doesn’t like stupidity and not knowing anything. If you are not the type of person who reads the news or watch television then now is the time to do it. Constant travelling also help.

5. Drink moderately. It is a turn-off for women to know that you drink in bars five nights a week. It’s fine to take her out on a drink once or twice, but don’t give her the impression that you are a bar VIP. You are less to catch a heart of a princess if you drunk more too often.

6. Love sport but don’t live with it. A lot of girls love sports as well and it’s fine to know that you have passion with them; just don’t be too passionate with it than with her.

7. No smoking please. Guys that smokes like a chimney is a major turn-off for girls, unless she also smokes herself.

8. Sort out your manners and courtesy. Women likes to be treated very well and most particularly with respect. Never let out swear words, vulgar languages, and rudeness. Never ever show laziness to your date – hold the door open for her. Guide her on the hallway and help her have a seat.

9. Know the language of fashion, jewelries and most specifically flowers.

10. Be a listener not a talker. Listen to every details she says but have your own opinions as well. Keep her interest in sharing stories but she’ll definitely bore if you do it all night – she also likes to tell you about herself. Also, remembering things that she told you will impress her to the fullest.

11. Learn the cha-cha. Even if your have both left or both right dancing to the right tune leaves a good impression. You don’t have to be a dance instructor to impress her but being seated while she’s on the dance floor – most likely she’ll forget that you’re with her.

12. Respect and never expect. Never expect that she’ll sleep with you on your first date. If you are looking forward to meeting a perfect girl there’s nothing sexier than being a patient man.

Even if you are a first time dater, a man who never dated his whole life, or a dating warfare expert these dating advice for men will surely be of help.

It seem like with the advent of online dating services and social networks that dating has entered an entirely different stratosphere. To a certain degree it has. Now it is possible to meet someone in your neck of the woods instantaneously, have an online chat and decide from the comfort of your own home whether you want to pursue a relationship.

One other innovation also appears to be changing the dating rules.  With the arrival of the Blackberry, it is no longer necessary to pick up the phone to confirm a date you have set up. Now just compose a quick text message, hit send and your date receives your correspondence instantly. In this day and age it’s all about speed.

 These new fangled advancements maybe great for a number of things but sometimes the tried and true methods that worked for previous generations are still the best way to conduct yourself when it comes to dating.

1. Let’s go out

You may be using your Blackberry for all kinds of purposes. Yes it’s turned out to be a very helpful resource but when it comes to asking someone for a date it’s not a good idea. Besides it being somewhat impersonal, it also tells the other person, you have not quite worked up the nerve to pick up the phone and call them or ask them out face to face. Letting the other person see you and hear your voice will easily have a more powerful effect. You may have put a lot of passion into writing your text message but when it gets sent to your potential date it still comes off as cold. 

2. Will they or won’t they

Yes, you can call someone, ask for a date and not get an answer or meet that person face to face and get a non committal response.  At least with these two methods, your instincts and observation skills can let you know pretty much where you stand. In other words you have a clearer indication of whether to keep asking or move on. Texting someone for a date and not getting any type of feedback can having you going in a hundred different directions.

You thought they liked you so why are they not responding? May be for whatever reason they are not available right now. The whole point is because you have not communicated with them in a more direct manner you don’t know so you are left to guess as to what is going on. The mind can play terrible tricks on you when it thinks you have been left hanging.   

3. Sorry but you can’t make it

This one comes under the heading of playing with dynamite. They agreed to go out with you. If you cannot make it then at least give them the courtesy of a phone call or a face to face cancellation. Whether you mean it or not, breaking a date thru texting is a clear indicator you are running away as fast as you can.  If your date is anywhere near the periphery of your social circle, the chances are the word about your rudeness (and fear) will spread very quickly.  How the other person takes the cancellation is up to them but the least you can do is face up to your own actions by looking them in the eye or talking to them over the phone.

No doubt some of these new gadgets are tremendous time savers. They also can help when it comes to instantaneously coordinating the schedules and whereabouts of you and your date. But do not let it take the place of good old fashion manners. Whether you two get together or not a warm voice and body will always be more appreciated than distant words on a mini monitor. 

The prom is one of the most exciting days in a young person’s life. Almost every high school student looks forward to this day. Whether you have a gorgeous partner at your side or you and all your friends decide to go together, it is surely a night filled with memories that will last a lifetime.

Selecting the Right Attire

There is so much preparation that goes into the prom to make it a spectacular event for everyone involved. Therefore enough consideration should be given when creating your look for the night. Starting with your outfit, always remember that uniqueness is what will get heads turning so opt for a dress or suit that will embrace your individuality.

When it comes to selecting that perfect dress, a great tip is to scan through a few fashion magazines. This will not only give you an idea of what is in at the moment but might also inspire you to come up with your own original designs. Also, take a look at what’s hot on the runway or what celebrities are wearing on the red carpet. Chances are you might not be so fortunate as to afford an original Valentino or Versace; there are many dressmakers out there that can recreate these styles. Do not be despaired if you cannot find a good dressmaker. There are so many choices to choose from on the internet and in the stores that you will have more than enough options. With so many designs available, you can choose a dress that perfectly fits your body type in the color and design of your choice.

Guys, you might not have as wide of a selection when it comes to prom wear. Uniqueness and individuality can surely still be achieved. Uniqueness however does not mean investing in a purple suit that makes you look like Barney, unless of course you can pull it off. Try to keep it classic but add a color shirt and tie to make your outfit look interesting. Wait until your date has decided on a color for her prom dress and then incorporate this color into your outfit. A black clean cut suit or tuxedo should do the trick, but don’t be afraid of pinstripes either. White suits or tuxedos for the guys could be one of the more trendy looks for 2009. White, if worn correctly looks chic and sophisticated. Before attempting to go with a white suit or tux, take a look at some pictures and see if you think you can pull it off. You don’t want to wear white just to wear it; you want to make sure you look good.

Accessories Can Make or Break Your Look

If you make your dress the main focus of your look, you clearly do not need multiple arm bands or huge earrings to complete your outfit. A dress that is interesting on its own should be the main attraction. By adorning yourself with an over abundance of accessories, you might look overdone. If you choose a dress that is bold enough to attract attention, you can go with small stud earrings or something with little sparkle. Some bracelets may look great with your dress but there is also a chance you won’t need one at all.

Opting for a simple dress with one solid color might leave more room for accessorizing. The trend for 2009 is to mix and match your accessories. For instance, a plain knee-length turquoise dress can be completed by adding brown and blue crystal bead chandelier earrings. An arm bracelet with a mixture of turquoise, green and brown crystal beads might just put the finishing touches on the outfit. If you do not want to wear accessories, then make your shoes interesting. Pointed toe shoes with an original design would look great with a simple single colored dress.

The choices of accessories for the guys are also quite slim. A top hat can add to the sophistication of a suit but stay away from the long chains with a dollar sign pendant. Other than a watch, a ring or some nice earrings there aren’t too many choices to accessorize with for the gentlemen.

Hair Do’s And Don’ts

With the invention of the straightening iron, hair is no longer a “big” issue. For both girls and guys straightly ironed hair is a good look for a prom. Ladies, leave the honeycomb for your wedding and try to keep your hair down, possibly straight or maybe add some soft curls. This will make your face look soft and fresh. For the guys, short hair is key. Mohawks do express individuality, but do you really want to look back in 10 years and see that? A nice short hair cut or possibly even a shaved head will look just fine. However, don’t go too short, baldheads are for body builders so allow some time for a little growth.

The unthinkable has happened. Your baby girl – wasn’t she in diapers just a few weeks ago – has announced that she wants to go on a date. If you’re like most parents, your first reaction is probably to lock her in a tower like Rapunzel until she comes to her senses. But that will only prolong the inevitable. Instead, why not follow this first dating advice to make sure her first date is safe and fun.

First Dating Advice #1: Insist Upon Meeting the Boy

Teenage fashion being what it is, try to keep an open mind about the color of his hair and clothing and about the number of tattoos and body piercings. Instead, focus on his behavior. Does he treat your daughter with respect? When you speak to him, does he respond appropriately? Trust your gut instinct. If your intuition warns you there is something amiss, cancel the date.

First Dating Advice #2: Ask When, Where, With Whom, and How Long

Ask your daughter to describe the evening’s plan in detail. (When you meet her date, you can ask him the same question to make sure the details match.) Feel free to nix any part of the plan you don’t like. (E.g., “A movie sounds great, but I don’t want you going to that party afterwards.”)

First Dating Advice #3: Make Sure Your Daughter Has a Way to Get in Touch with You

Give your daughter a cell phone and a couple of quarters in case she needs to use a payphone. Make sure she knows all your numbers (home, cell, work, etc.). Tell her that if she ever feels uncomfortable or thinks she is in danger to call you immediately. Tell her that you will come immediately and that any discussion of what happened can be postponed until the next day if necessary. Make sure your daughter knows you are strong enough to hear anything she has to say.

First Dating Advice #4: Debrief

Wait up for your daughter after the date. Observe her mood and behavior. Does she seem happy or sad? Does she walk steadily? Is there alcohol on her breath? The next day, ask your daughter to tell you about the date. Share any observations you may have made. (E.g., “You say you had a great time, but when you came in last night you slammed the front door and you looked really angry. What was that about?”).

Your daughter’s first date can be a frightening experience for you as a parent. Using this first dating advice can help keep your daughter safe and you sane.

It can be difficult to be a woman in the dating scene. A lot can go wrong for you more so than for your male counterpart. Plus, men can be really ignorant about a few things. But, don’t worry. Here are a few tips on what to do and not to do during a date:

1) Be nice -be positive , tell him things that you like,Compliment him about his clothes, the way he looks and how well the date is going. It puts him at ease and also makes him feel important. It also shows him that you’re noticing him and you appreciate him. But, be truthful. Look at the bright side of things – the service of the restaurant may have been slow but the ambiance was terrific.

2) Timing is important – be punctual. No matter what they say, there is no such thing as ‘fashionably late’. For the first date, this can give the guy jitters and make him think that you’ve stood him up. For the later dates, having him wait for you in the living room for half an hour is not something you want him to do – whether it be for the embarrassing stories or dad’s ‘eyes of doom’.

3) Do not complain – This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t tell him what’s wrong or something makes you uncomfortable. The way you say it and the tone you use is important here. ‘Venting’, like we do with our girl friends, is not going to go over well with him since he’ll probably misinterpret it. Smile and bear it then tell him after the date calmly what your problem was. Trust me, he’ll understand and he’ll try to make it up to you.

4) Stay alert and keep your head – Yes, we all know dates are supposed to be fun, but knowing what’s going on is important both for your own safety and for your love life. Is your date acting suspiciously or is he just nervous? Maybe you’d want to keep the date short or do something to put him at ease. Is he taking notice of what you’re wearing or just ogling? The choice to either wink at him or just stare knowingly is up to you. Is his attention on you or the woman at the next table? You might wish to reward him with a smile or a slap. Situational awareness is not just for soldiers on the front but also for young women on the prowl.

5) Be consistent – For those who’ve crossed the ‘first date’ Rubicon, try maintaining the impression you made on him during the first date. Men don’t like surprises except, of course, if they plan them. Talk to each other, both on and off dates, to get to know each other more. What he got on the first date was a sneak preview, what he should get from your continued dating should be the entire movie.

6)Have fun – A date is a chance to get to know each other and to enjoy yourselves. Have fun during the date. Try not to be hyper-critical, but just take things at your own pace. If you’re not having fun, your date will notice and, trust me, he will get nervous which will probably start ruining the experience for both of you. Also, just let your guard down for a little while. Let him see the real you. He may or may not like it, but in the end he will appreciate the honesty of the act. Besides, if he doesn’t like you for you, why should you keep on dating?

7) Show interest afterwards – If you really like him, waiting for the call after a successful date is nerve-wracking. You know he’s interested and you’re definitely interested, you’re just waiting for him to call you so you could arrange another date. Try giving him a day or two. He usually has to get his act together and work up the courage to call. If he doesn’t call, he’s probably still tongue-tied from being in your presence. Call him up to say hello. Talk about the date and how you had fun and give hints. No matter how dense he is, he should then pick up on it and ask you for another date!

Well, there they are seven tips for dating success! Hopefully, this advice could help lead you through today’s tough tangle of relationships. Happy Dating!